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Enfys’ Big Adventure – 5 scary things about playgroup

written by Beth Davidson 12th November 2017

Last Tuesday I dropped Enfys off at playgroup for the very first time.  It’s a big adventure for any child but for Enfys it’s something we thought, at one point, would be impossible.  We didn’t know if she would be able to live a normal life.  We didn’t know if she would even get this far at some points. 

She fought, and it’s that fight that has brought us to this point.  The point where I can say, she lives an amazingly full life. 

As much as this has been an exciting step in her life, the thought of her attending playgroup scares me. Why though?

The threat of illnesses is increased

Enfys’ weakened immune system means that she is more susceptible to catching viruses and illnesses in general.  Her body can’t fight them off as effectively as other children.  Up until now, she’s lead a pretty sheltered life.  She has only really had contact with the bugs and germs that come into our house with the other children and I do my best to keep her as safe as possible from them. Being around other children means that she’s potentially being exposed to more. 

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I rarely leave her with anyone

I’m the one who just ‘gets’ her.  I know her likes, dislikes and fears.  If she is happy, I know.  She knows she can have a cwtch from me if she is feeling sad.  I know her favourite songs and how to make her laugh.  



She has more specific needs than most children

Enfys doesn’t talk, she is only just starting to walk and she is very quiet.  She is globally delayed which means she needs more care than most other 2 year olds.  I worry that her needs won’t be met by others.  Which is the reason for the previous point if I am honest.  I needn’t have worried about this though.  Her needs are very well cared for. 

She will be difficult

I suppose this one is also related to the two above.  A child with extra needs isn’t necessarily easy – in fact, a lot of the time it’s damn hard.  What if the playgroup find it hard?  What if her stubborn side comes out?  What if she cries the entire time she is there?  All of these fears are completely unfounded.  The small group means that the ratio of adults to children are great.  😀  She has gone off to play each time and they have commented on how wonderful she is to have around. 🙂

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She won’t miss me

Ok, this one is really selfish.  Up until now, I’ve been her primary carer.  I have been her world (with the exception of the rest of our family) and I’m scared I have to relinquish this.  To be honest, I would rather her be happy and not miss me but there’s that little part of me that would have liked a goodbye cwtch and kiss. 

Enfys’ first two sessions at playgroup were a dream.  She thoroughly enjoyed it.  It was even better because she had her big brother, Macsen, there to look after her.  This week she will be going again so let’s see what it brings. 🙂

Enfys’ Big Adventure – 5 scary things about playgroup was last modified: January 31st, 2018 by Beth Davidson

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Nicola Cassidy 22nd November 2017 at 11:26 am

You sound like a great Mum looking after your daughter’s needs and worrying about her – you must be so chuffed to see her doing well at playschool – it’s a massive step!

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Tracy 21st November 2017 at 9:52 am

Aw, so good Enfys enjoyed herself! It is so hard letting our kids go, even more so when they have special needs. So wonderful then, that it appears that your initial worries have proven unfounded!

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Fashion and Style Police 15th November 2017 at 11:28 am

Good to know your little one enjoyed her playgroup sessions. Hopefully that continues.

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Newcastle Family Life 14th November 2017 at 9:29 am

Glad she enjoyed it, it sounds like she has settled in straight away. I hope she manages to avoid nasty germs x

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Elinor Hill aka Beach Hut Cook 13th November 2017 at 7:22 pm

Glad her playgroup sessions were good. Fingers crossed she continues to stay clear of bugs to keep going. She looks a joy x

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Rachel 13th November 2017 at 6:47 pm

Aww bless her! It’s a big step going to nursery and sounds like an even bigger step given her additional needs and the fact she is rarely without you. I hope she gets on well and doesn’t pick up too many winter bugs.

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